Making Peace With Childhood, Family and Painful Past

"Control Release"

Healing starts from surrender.  You can't change your life if you fight the truth.  Resistance only causes more struggle.  Instead, you must relax, let go, and let the truth break you wide open  

Control issues are subconscious.  You may not even be aware of these defence mechanisms, because they develop at a very young age to help you avoid emotional pain and disappointment  

Control suppresses your feelings and choices, keeping a lid on painful memories and experiences.  These defensive behaviour patterns can prevent flower essences from working as effectively as they should.  Every time an essence fusion begins to release buried emotions and thought patterns, your brain wants to intercede and stop the process to protect you from anticipated discomfort or pain

CONTROL RELEASE ensures much better results with our trauma-release living flower essences!Control Release addresses fear-based control issues.  It effortlessly dissolves judgment, criticism, perfectionism, security issues, and other control issues that prevent an effortless release of your deeply held emotional issues 

Control Release is a very useful essence fusion to take before beginning an emotional healing remedy for a deep-seated issue of the past.  It allows you to let go of the defensive control strategies you developed in childhood when you experienced any of the following:  criticism, abandonment, a perfectionist parent, alcoholic or mentally ill parent, dysfunctional home, frequent relocation, foster care, abuse or rape, or family breakup

Use for 21-66 days

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50 

"Deep Wounds of Childhood"

Childhood issues are especially painful and negatively impact your life in many ways.  By the time you are 5 years old you have already decided what you need to do to survive in this world.  Every decision you make as an adult stems from these formative years    

Until you heal the wounds of your past, they will continue to ooze through and stain every aspect of your life.  You can only temporarily assuage the pain with food, alcohol or drugs  

This profound essence fusion offers the means to step out of your history, forgive, and finally be free.  It prompts the release and healing of all types of childhood pain, including abuse, abandonment, and bullying.  Helps you make lasting peace with your past

"I can see life and my life from a different point of view without so much interference. I found myself forgiving on a deeper level and in the process releasing un-forgiveness from places in my body where it had gotten stored/stuck"  Margie D

Releasing the past can be a little emotionally uncomfortable for a day or two while you are purging and processing all the long suppressed damaging experiences of your childhood.  But, it is very short-lived, and on the other side is peace from all the loss, rejection, disappointment, and pain of your past

"I took the drops in the morning as directed.  The next morning I woke up with a dream still in my mind, where I was standing in a long hall, my goal was at the other end of the hall, and there was a mountain of junk between me and my goal.  The next minute the mountain of junk had been parted like the Red Sea, junk on either side, some of it gone, but a clear path from where I was standing to my goal, and the understanding that I could just walk the path to my goal, or I could let the junk distract me, I could let the junk pull my focus back to it, and not be focused on the goal, free will, my choice.  Every morning that week I woke up with dreams that were stuff to be cleared, which I sent into the Sacred Fire, and the next week the dreams were no longer clear in my mind, like they were just being cleared themselves, as I had built up some momentum.  Happier now than 2 weeks ago for sure ..."  Heather H  Allan SK CA

For traumatic childhood abuse, you should select our 60 ml (42 day) remedy  or a secondary essence fusion such as Forgiveness, Sexual Abuse Release, Trauma Release, or I Am Not a Victim

If you experienced constant insecurity and fear or a judgmental, perfectionist parent, you may need to take Control Release prior to beginning this essence  

We recommend taking a nurturing essence fusion such as 'BE KIND TO YOURSELF' following or concurrent with this essence to soften any temporary emotional discomfort and provide gentle comforting self-nurturing

Try Sweet Innocence after this essence to return your beautiful soul essence  

Use for 21-42 days  

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50   

"Father Issues"

Your father is largely responsible for teaching you how to relate to others, and how to have relationships.  When you experience abandonment, or feel unloved, rejected, or ignored by your dad, or if you have conflicts with your father or witness negative ways your mom is treated by your dad, it can impact the way you view relationships and authority figures   

Childhood experiences can teach you to accept abuse, feel unlovable, become a victim, or have challenges with male authority figures such as your boss.  When you are unhealed in respect to your father, you may believe the universe is un-generous

Your relationship with your father also determines your social skills.  Father issues are often the root cause of social anxiety, because your father teaches you how to move outward into the world, interact with others, and have relationships and partnerships.  You may not be able to assert yourself in healthy ways or move into your true potential  

A child who grows up with an absent father is more likely to feel shy, inhibited, and experience stress during social interactions.   Studies show that those with unhealthy or absent father relationships are also much more likely to develop social anxiety  

Boys who lack a wise mentor and strong father image will grow up not knowing how to be appropriately assertive, successful, and may lack ambition or belief in themselves and not feel entitled to be successful.  They may not know how to have healthy relationships

Father issues especially impact the lives of women, because a father is a girl's first experience with male love.  Issues with daddy or feeling abandoned can cause a woman to believe she is unlovable, undeserving, or that she must earn love  

Unresolved father issues can cause you to unconsciously transfer your daddy issues to all the men in your life.  So, you'll keep sabotaging yourself by choosing unsuitable or 'unavailable partners' such as married men, 'troubled' or alcoholic men, aloof or abusive men, or older men.  Or you may have a pattern of running away from relationships and interactions before you can be abandoned or rejected again  

This profound essence fusion can be life-altering as it helps you process and understand your relationship with your father and the men or authority figures in your life.  FATHER ISSUES prompts the release and healing of all types of emotional pain surrounding your father, including abuse, abandonment, estrangement, lack of healthy mentoring, and rejection  

This essence fusion often brings startling realizations into conscious awareness ('aha moments') that can re-frame your whole outlook in positive ways.  It also releases unhealthy attitudes toward authority and stepping into your own power

"Drama Free"

Studies show that children who grow up in stressful or chaotic home environments become 'addicted' to stress neuropeptides such as adrenaline.  In fact, your body becomes so conditioned to a constant flow of these stress hormones that it feels vaguely uncomfortable during calm periods when there are no crises in your life

Your brain will do whatever it can to restore its adrenaline fix.  You may start to feel short-tempered and over-reactive.  Or, you will begin to crave stress-inducing foods, such as coffee, sugar, chocolate, or junk food.  You might become a 'drama queen', attracting crisis into your life.  It's NOT a hormonal imbalance--it's an adrenaline addiction!  That's why these types of stress-inducers may actually feel calming or satisfying to you    

Drama Free is a natural antidote to adrenaline addiction.  It is very helpful for overcoming adrenal fatigue and for stopping habituation (addiction to adrenaline or stress)  (use for 42-66 days for adrenaline imbalances)    

Drama Free keeps you from being knocked off balance by family 'dramas' and helps you remain neutral in the midst of chaos--your own, as well as chaos created by others. It helps dissolve your negative perspective and negative expectations.  It also inhibits you from taking on other people's dramas, crises, and problems.  

Use 21-66 days to break negative/drama habit  

Use for 42-66 days to break adrenaline/stress addiction

30 ml  $30  ~  60 ml  $50

"Sexual Abuse Release"

Promotes gentle psychological healing after traumatic physical and emotional violation such as rape, incest, assault or abuse of authority.  Suitable for any kind of physical trauma to the body (including traumatic accidents), where emotional trauma becomes energetically 'stuck'  

Effectively releases trauma 'memory' from tissue in the body where it is being stored.  Overwrites the emotional trauma to gradually restore wholeness and well-being

"I have just finished the Sexual Abuse Release and over the 7 weeks have experienced a significant and what feels like miraculous reduction in the bladder pain, soreness, burning, frequency, cramps and urgency. I would say it's about 90% better now. I still have to keep acidic drinks to a minimum, but can go about my life much more normally and sleep. Bless you for the work you do."  NL UK

Long-held or childhood physical trauma requires at least 42 days to dissolve completely.  Because of the intensely physical experience of the emotional trauma, we want you to know that you may  actually feel where in your body you have stored your trauma as it releases

"On the very first night I felt other energies leaving me (felt like they had been feeding off and taking my energy).  On the 6th day my body started to ache and would return over and over. Took a while for this to leave.  Boundary issues kept visiting me again and again giving me adequate practice!"  Meghan D  SC

Recommended to use contraceptives following this essence.  Has demonstrated to help energetically increase possibility of pregnancy by releasing the traumatic mental and emotional blockages that prevent conception

We recommend taking Sweet Innocence or Be Kind to Yourself after completing this remedy

42 days  60 ml @ $50

"Divorce Heal"

Neutralizes ALL types of challenging contentious family relationships including parent-teen!  Not just for divorce!  

This neutralizing essence fusion is helpful for healing the pain, anger and resentment of any type of relationship that has caused animosity, negative feelings, and inability to communicate in a loving way.  Try it for soured mother-daughter relationships!

Dissolves rejection, animosity, blame, judgment, rancour, and other negative emotions, no matter what the relationship.  Helps you forgive, accept, heal, and let go of the past  

"I absolutely loved the Divorce Heal flower essence. Thank you SO much!"  Julia VN  Hamilton ON

Use for 21-66 days as needed

"Karma Clear"

A very powerful clearing and purging remedy that leaves you feeling free and unencumbered.  Dissolves the negative effects from your past  

KARMA CLEAR overwrites guilt, karmic debt, unforgiven past experiences, and unhealthy energetic ties to those from your past.  It can even reach into past lives when needed 

"All I can say is “WOW!” This is some powerful stuff. Since day one so many changes have been happening in my life and they’re all good."  Daniel O  Pico Rivera CA

By clearing your energy field of the threads of karmic attachments, Karma Clear can sometimes help to clear hexes or curses.  Leaves you feeling clear and unimpeded

Use for 21 days.  Repeat for 3-5 days once a month to dissolve new karma before it begins to negatively impact your life

30 ml @ $30  ~  60 ml @ $50